AFTER READING THIS, YOUR WON’T SAY AGAIN THAT THERE IS NO MONEY

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 One of the commonest complaints on the lips of many Nigerians is “there is no money.” On the other hand, one of the commonest groaning from the lips of the same set of people is that “our politicians have stolen all our moneys”. But a careful look into the society and particularly around the entertainment, hospitality, real estate and sex industries reveals that there are so many non-politicians bagging real money and earning genuine wealth. How true then is the saying that “there is no money anywhere”? A big fat lie, it is. The truth is that there is money in the hands of a group of people whom many others complaining are simply unwilling or scared to take the risk of approach to attract or demand their own fair share of the wealth.

JUST BEFORE YOU GET SERIOUS WITH THE OTHER GENDER

 

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Are you curious to know what my thoughts are about them? Well, I just have few lines to share about my experience thus far and I can only pray you read with an open mind, ready to adjust and adapt so you don’t cut short your life trying to pull and reconstruct a well-crafted and fortified wall built from time immemorial to outlive the roads built by our colonial masters or the engines built by the Germans.

Of course, I am talking about the female gender; I refer to them as the beautiful versions of humans. So much has been said about how they are materialistic and complex in behaviour, being more emotional than rational, etc. I have found that it makes more sense to me to advise against materialism than blame the other gender for their attraction to beauty and lovely things; after all, those are the very elements of their being.

I have come to realize that the very things the female gender desires are the very aspects of them where a male gender can invest to get the very best out of the female gender. So firstly, you need to know they want your ACT. Yes, you read it well and there is nothing wrong with your eyes or my mind.

A is for Attention – they want to know that they are important to you and that they are not wasting their time in your life. I think this happens because when a woman falls in love, she is very likely to give her all for the one she loves so in return, she expects full attention and devotion to her because she has given that and that is simply how she understands and interprets love – now you understand why women frown so much at a cheating partner. Give her attention and she will fight and stand for you.

C is for Care – So she wants to know if you are concerned about what bothers her and would like to know what you have to do about her worries. She wants to feel protected and supported by you and not exposed to physical or spiritual harm (even financial harm too). She would not want you to make her a ridicule among her female friends and foes. She wants to know you are thinking about her and that her efforts and contributions matter to you. She wants to know that you appreciate what she does and that you are ready to reciprocate and understand when she is unable to do them. These are the basic elements of the word, CARE as understood by women.

T is for Treasure – A lady in love is a giver of herself and all so naturally responds to gifts. Remember she epitomizes and fancies beauty so make sure the gift is well packaged not just with a nice wrap but also with some element of quick surprise. Make sure you do not drag the surprise for too long so that she doesn’t wear out due to anxiety – they are not always very patient too. Yes, give her gifts, spend what you can afford on her because if you get into trouble because you want to impress her, you would have made her ashamed and this is a breach of the provisions of SECTION C of the ACT.

I have discovered that many times, a woman truly does not need so much money (many guys/men will simply say I’m not serious here) to be alright, but a practical commitment to show that you care about her needs. So a lady may have a need (many of which are ‘wants’ anyways) of N100k, but your ability to package a surprise and romantic N10k worth may send more shivers of love down her spine than when you give her N100k cash. As regards whether you must give her N100k if she asks for that, I can tell you what works on a one-on-one discussion (not for public consumption).

There are some other things you may need to know about a woman but you see these ones, hold them dear, take them serious and you will know peace. So in summary ehh, you see that your partner that you are finding it too hard to understand or satisfy, take some time to find what she likes most in addition to your ACT and gift her and then I am sure you will be at my DM thanking me soon. I know that terms and conditions apply here especially given that there are so many “umu aka high way” around now but I can tell you that I know some real wife materials around and the principle I have shared here sure works for more than 90%. Go in peace and give her your best ACT.

Good luck on your journey bro!!!

Author: Joseph O. Ebirim (Mc Dr Spyce)
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